If there’s one thing that couples can agree on, it’s the idea that relationships require work. Add distance into that equation, and you’ve got yourself a situation that can be really wonderful or really heartbreaking.
Long-distance relationships can test the strength of any commitment, so it’s important to weigh out the pros and cons before getting involved in one.
When it comes to LDRs, it’s always more about quality than quantity. The amount of time you can be together as a couple is limited, which makes the time you spend together that much more valuable. These relationships can also be helpful for not getting on each other’s nerves as often. Spending too much time together can tire couples out, and as the saying goes, distance really does make the heart grow fonder.
Despite the benefits, there are some drawbacks with long-distance relationships that take a damaging toll on couples. As social beings, we need affection and interaction that can’t be replaced with Skype, texts or phone calls. Relying too much on impersonal contact may lead to awkward and stagnant conversations, which can result in more arguments.
An article from HerMANual addresses the difficulties of long-distance relationships, but it also offers tips to help couples push through those obstacles. One problem they say to avoid: comparing your relationship to someone else’s. What works for one couple may not work for you, so you shouldn’t try to mold your relationship into something that it isn’t.
HerMANual also hits the nail on the head by pointing out that you should always remember what you are working for. It’s tempting to take the easy way out of a relationship when the going gets tough, but you just have to remind yourself why you got involved in the first place.
Long-distance relationships don’t always work for everyone, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t worth a shot.
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Long-distance relationships can test the strength of any commitment, so it’s important to weigh out the pros and cons before getting involved in one.
